I mentioned a recent post that I weeded out all my white sleeveless blouses and sent them on to other homes. Then, of course, while shopping I ran across another one that I just had to have. On the surface, that might seem like proof of Einstein's definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. But no.
Lesson learned: Cream is not white. And cream looks better on me than pure white. Really good to know.
I love this creamy-white blouse. I didn't photograph it well, but the very crisp, art-deco style pleating is flattering. It has pretty white and gold enamel buttons as well. Happy me.
I've also been seeing the most adorable clutch-purses of all sizes, shapes and colors in magazines and on fellow bloggers. And like all the lovely women who carry them, they are invariably shown to their best advantage. There are no unsightly bulges that might be caused by ... ummm ... actual contents. You know, the stuff that you need to carry around in them?
Yeah, yeah, I know, you don't need to carry that much. A credit card, a lipstick, perhaps a key. Of course. I believe you. And you must know how much I envy your organizational skills and minimalist lifestyle.
But I have too much stuff that needs to come with me when I go out and about. There's only so much downsizing that's useful to me.
I had completely given up on being able to carry a clutch, until I found the one pictured above at TJ Maxx for much less than I though it might cost!
Lesson Learned: There are still soft, oversized clutches being made and available in your price range. They can hold all your stuff with minimal downsizing of items. You just need to keep the larger size on your radar.
And lest you think I'm showing you an empty clutch for best effect, you should know that, in this photograph, it contains:
my Kindle Fire HD 8.9
card case with ID, cards and cash
hairbrush
Bare Minerals mirrored compact and brush
tiny pencil eyeliner stub
lipstick
phone
Bare Minerals Sunblock
asthma inhaler
sunglasses in hard case
And there's plenty of room to carry the cream-colored Battenburg lace fan, also pictured above. It's one of my favorite styles of fan, and I have several colors in this style.
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Below you'll see a couple of pictures of two of my darling doggies ... and both of them happen to match my outfit, but both have to be left at home in air conditioned comfort this time of year. And while the lesson below is not a new one for me, it bears mentioning.
Lesson to remember: As much as I love my blouse, fan and bag, they're never going to love me back. These kids do, and deserve extra consideration during our miserable hot weather.
Here in the photo with me is Bijou, our toy poodle. Nope, she's not a mix. Some poodles just have waves instead of curls. And lots of premature gray and white spots on chin and toes instead of the more glamorous pure black.
And this adorable little girl below is our latest rescue. Her name is Toutes because when she wags her tail, she wags everything!
She's clearly part Chihuahua, and something else. Not sure what, but she has some long hair somewhere in her family tree. So, that makes her Demi-Chihuahua with Long Hair, if not a purebred Long Haired Chihuahua. That's our story and you're stuck with it.
She's still a young dog ... she just has an unfortunate amount of gray like Bijou.
(Awwwwww....)
Kittehs need special consideration in the summer as well. Below are "The Evil Twins", Janie and Posh. They're not identical twins, but herringbone-tabby sisters who are very hard to tell apart. Janie has green eyes and Posh has eyes that are an astonishing shade of gold-orange.
Lesson Learned: Gray can be Glam!
(And cats do not like to be photographed at nap time. There was retaliation.)
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Toutes takes us to The Amazing Patti and Her Gathering of Glamizons at Visible Monday ! Join us ?
I saw a few fans at an estate sale on Friday, and thought of you. But they weren't elegant enough for you. Like the gorgeous lace fan that matches you new cream blouse, which looks delicious with your black pants, sandals and the clutch large enough to carry everything you need.
ReplyDeleteLove the photos of your beloved pets. Yes, they are adorable!
I really love these Battenburg fans ... they're modern looking with un-fussy lace, provide a good breeze and are pretty tough and take jamming into a bag well. So happy you thought of me when looking at fans.
DeleteGlad you liked the pet photos. They are our family!
I really appreciate your kind remarks, Judith, as always!
Oh my I am in love with your doggies! A-D-O-R-A-B-L-E! You need a pet family portrait since all the greys, blacks and whites would be perfect together.
ReplyDeleteI do love that clutch but I have to admit as much as I love the look of them I find them totally impractical. I need hands free. Even ones with little chains I like better.
That said I love the classic look of this clutch. And the fact that you can stuff lots of stuff inside.
You and I must have the exact same skin. Cream is much better than white on me any day.
I think it's hilarious you got rid of your old white sleeveless blouses to buy a new one. Some habits are hard to break : )
bisous
Suzanne
So much cuteness and so much love for your pets!!!!
DeleteThe blouse and the clutch are a great find and they look great on you but most important and no matter what Einstein said: if you love you should buy for yourself.
I'm the family "carrier" so usually my purses are pack with stuff, only when I go out on my own can I wear a clutch or a small bag.
Do you suffer from asthma?, because my oldest daughter does and she is always carrying her inhaler,
Thanks, Suzanne. This isn't even half of them ... we have plenty of space and there's always some poor little poo dropped off near the restaurant. They gravitate to the smell of cooking steak and burgers! Some stay, some go to other homes. Toutes ran across in front of the car on a highway ... couldn't let her get squished. She's become my special buddy.
DeleteYup, on this clutch's maiden voyage, I found I missed my left hand, but a tuck under the arm helps. Not second nature yet, and still like my handbags with straps of handles. Nice I know I can punt when I wish to, though!
Good to know that in my freaking 60's I finally figure out how to wear whites! To be fair, cool whites looked better on me when I was younger. Skin has grown a bit sallow, it seems, so the cream is kinder.
Have a great, pain free week. (Actually, I wish you a pain-free forever-after!)
So glad you stopped by, Ofelia! Yes, lots of cute and lots more love.
DeleteWe never just go out for an hour or so ... it always seems for the whole day, and I just like to have more survival gear with me. First thing, any bag must carry my Kindle Fire!
And yes, I'm asthmatic since childhood, but it is pretty easily controlled since it's always allergy related. I'm also have COPD, but it gives me little trouble in any but allergy season.
I so enjoyed you post showing your museum trip. I miss the city!
Stop by any time, and thanks for your kind remarks.
Of course you have rescued animals-- I could have guess we have this in common! We have done the same and find them to be the most lovable pets. Your pets look like sweeties just like you!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy this outfit with this lacy fan. I have some small purses and I've been eyeing some clutches but haven't purchased one yet. In daily life I do need a big bag for many of the things you listed and more.
Loved reading your comments on my post. I have a soft spot for honorable cowboys.
blue hue wonderland
Thank you, Ann. Good that you stopped by! Bijou was a planned puppy ... but we have other rescues like Toutes. It's difficult for pets here in the country, and folks don't always treat them well. The two cats were born in our garage, so they have as much right to stay as we do. If only they could contribute to the utilities!
DeleteThanks for your kind remarks ... you are welcome here anytime.
You dogs are too precious! Growing up, I've never had a pet and my son & hubby is asking to have a dog. Dogs for me are fun to play with but not sure I am ready for the responsibility. You fan & your top is cute! Love the pleats in the front.
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www.happinessatmidlfie.com
It seems you have a realistic idea of whom the dog will actually belong to ... the one who feeds, vets and takes them out. It's usually the mom who gets to do that, job and career hours notwithstanding! It's not that men and boys are callous, but they just tend to take the family pet for granted, just like another family member. If you do get one, I recommend a rescue ... they always really appreciate it.
DeleteGlad you like my top and fan ... I appreciate you kind remarks and I hope you know you're always welcome here!
Have a great week.
I'm having a moment of "awwwwwwe" looking at your sweet pets! But back to cream and white...I'm struggling with that just now, as well. I'm thinking it's white that I can wear best...yet cream goes better with my wardrobe!!! Maybe a tan would help!
ReplyDeleteCute blouse, by the way!
Thanks, Dawn. Age has made cream kinder to me than white, but everyone is different!
DeleteAnd so glad you liked my little moochers. Toutes has never looked better than in that photo ... lucky to have it!
I appreciate all your kind comments, and come back anytime!
Bijou, Toutes, Janie, and Posh! Ah, your pups are girly girls. I'm in love with them. And Janie and Posh are equally adorable. By the way, when is it not nap time for a cat?
ReplyDeleteMy husband had a t-shirt on yesterday that I had not seen before. He had bought it in Maui last December, and it was the first wear. I commented on how nice and new it looked...deep navy with a little logo on it. The back displaying a bigger print. Shortly after I said that, he picked up Mia and rubbed her all over his t-shirt. He smugly said, 'That's better!' He was, of course, covered in grey fur. {Sigh}
Sue xo
So true about cat naps. I've screwed up with the cats ... more about that soon. They are not happy with me.
DeleteHa! One of my favorite craft items is a throw pillow that is embroidered with the phrase "No ensemble is complete without pet hair."
Too true.
Have a great week, and I am so happy you are feeling better.
You know "mi casa es su casa!"
I adore fans - I'm sure they will come in handy as my flashes get hotter!
ReplyDeleteAw, your furry fam is so adorable. I love the kitties.
Yup ... thought you might appreciate meeting part of the feline contingent. There are more.
DeleteGlad you enjoy your fans ... you're not old enough for many serious "tropical moments" and I hope they don't get miserable.
Have a great week. You're welcome any time.
Your blouse is so pretty and I love the detail. I always tell myself to look for delicate blouses like these and I somehow never do.
ReplyDeleteO-M-G. Those little furballs are precious. Toutes is just adorable. Those ears are just about as big as she is. ha
Oh oh oh - furry creatures to adore! I'll talk clothes later but first - your Janie is the very image of my cat Willow, it's uncanny. I just showed the family and they all said it was an amazing resemblance. Tell Janie she has a doppelgänger over here in the UK. She won't care, of course, because cats don't. Your doggies are so beautiful too, look at their little faces! Nothing wrong with some grey streaks, they look distinguished.
ReplyDeleteSo - cream blouse. I am better with cream than white though I wear neither very often. But that blouse is very stylish and you look beautiful. Of course you do.
Everyday clutch bags are just not practical for me, though they look great. They are OK for an evening, and I must say I am impressed with how much you managed to fit in yours. I like something I can sling over my shoulder or arm, I need hands free for gesticulating at all times, I can't talk without my hands. And I am pleased to see your bag obviously has stuff in it - blogger pics with flat clutches make me cross! Where's the stuff?! xxxxx
Jan, I simply love your style of writing :) It always makes me if not laughing but smiling for sure. Your new cream coloured blouse is very elegant and stylish, I really like it with these black pants.
ReplyDeleteI've never considered to buy a clutch exactly for same reason - I need to carry many things with me that seem not to fit into it. Now I see that it is possible to find a clutch that is big enough for everything I want to carry with me.
Love the pictures of your pets, so cute and adorable
Thanks for your kind comments, Olga. I aim to entertain. If it's just clothes all the time, it gets dull. You always have lovely photos to show ... exotic places and events. I love that a lot.
DeleteIt was fun to photograph the pets ... they're our babies.
Stop by any time, and know you're very welcome.
You are so right about cream and white. I coloured by brows white a couple of times and they were just weird. I did them more of a creamy colour and they looked just right. Same with clothes. I love your blouse and fan! Do you ever wonder what the Queen carries in her purse - certainly not money.
ReplyDeleteYour children are adorable!!!
I've seen flesh toned brow color that I find kind of interesting ... probably not for me any time soon, though. Pale brows seem otherworldly looking, and that's an attractive idea.
DeleteYou just had to ask. So I had to go look up what the Queen (probably) wags around with her in her Launer bag. " Reading glasses, mint lozenges, a fountain pen and a small mirror and lipstick." She's also said to carry a hook with a suction cup on it so she can hang her purse under the table. Really? No cash, "Except for the ‘precisely folded’ 5 pound or 10 pound note on Sundays, which she donates at church." This from Sally Bedell Smith, her current biographer. Maybe or maybe not a cell phone.
Good to know. I guess ...
Thank you for the compliment about my " children" ... they're way better than kids. You don't have to send them to college but then, they don't support you when you're old, either.
Hope you have another great week. You looked quite amazing in pink and gold.
What a great find and pretty ensemble, love the pets to!
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Thank you for dropping by, Nicolene. The pets are pretty adorable, I agree. I appreciate you kind comment on my outfit. Looking forward to seeing what you come up with!
DeleteOh my! Your furbabies are the cutest. Your kittehs are not looking like happy campers though.
ReplyDeleteLovely blouse. You are so right about cream looking better than pure white. I used to make that mistake, too.
Like Curtise, I need my hands free and generally need shoulder or across the body bags. But good for you for fitting so much stuff in your clutch.
Awww. Thanks! I love my furry kids ... kittehs will get over it, but I have some recanting to do. I called one by the wrong name ... Janie is really Lucy. Janie is our calico. They'll forgive by supper time.
DeleteProbably will not carry the clutch often ... I really like my strappy bags best ... you are right. Much easier. But I like having an option.
So glad you stopped by. You're always welcome here!
oh my goodness you are adorable anyway and then you go throw in the cutest little dog I ever did see!!!! lovely! xxx also wanted to hand deliver the message to you that I have decided to turn Shiny T Tuesday into a new weekly fashion linky!! Eeeekk!!! It will have weekly prompts, the first prompt for next Tuesday being 'When Patterns Speak' .....do come and play at the party at my place xxxx
ReplyDeleteI'll definitely try to be there ... like the prompt. Our busy time is after Wednesday and through Sunday ... hope I can make it on time.
DeleteShe is adorable, our Toutes. My babies.
So glad you stopped by, and I hope you know you're always welcome to pop in!
Have a great week, with hugs from across the Big Pond to yourself and any of the kids that like them!
All five of you are glam, grey or otherwise. Touted looks like something Dr. Seuss would have imagined, and I mean that as the highest praise!
ReplyDeleteGreat blouse. The detail on the front is perfect...tailored, not fussy. What a good find.
Yup, she's Seuss-esque. Thanks for the sweet comments, Onion Girl. Glad when you can drop by ... anytime is great!
DeleteMajor awwwww for the gorgeous furry lovers. We have cats but love dogs too, hooray for rescues! And hooray for your fab blouse and clutch - thanks for sharing all the joy with Vis Monday!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Patti. They are awwww-some, huh? Loves us some kittehs. Always kind of you to stop by. Thanks for the kind words.
DeleteHave a great week!
Jan, I love your posts.. there is always so many subjects to relate to: Cream vers. white shirt, Einstein definition of insanity, huge clutch-purses, cats, dogs and much more... I wish to add that you have a lovely smile! Sara
ReplyDeleteHello, Sara! Always glad to see you stop in for a bit! Thank you for your sweet comments. We aim to amuse, certainly! I smile more often now in photos because it automatically softens my sagging chipmunk-cheeks!
DeleteI love tabbies! <3
ReplyDeleteCream is such an unsung color hero. I've learned that black/cream is more flattering less "cartoony" than black and white, so I've been wearing more of that mix and it feels more dignified. You look great- wonderful skinny jeans and great clutch!
I'm in trouble with the cats. I gave the wrong name for one of them and all parties involved are extorting retractions. Threatening, actually!
DeleteYup ... cream is easier for me nowadays. I'm one of those people who will never achieve dignity no matter what. Its a very short person thing.
Means a lot to me that you liked my stuff ... thank you so much for your sweet remarks. Come back anytime!
And very good luck on your site revamp ... will look forward to the changes!
Love your outfit and all of the black and white beauties on the last post!!
ReplyDeleteFURBABIES!!!!! Bijou is adorable!! what a sweet face!!!
And cute kitties!! Jane looks a bit like she's throttling Posh!!
And congrats on the new baby Toute--OMG what a adorable face!! How cool both of us have new rescued chihuahua baies this week?? How old is Toutes??
Hey, Tamara!
DeleteWe've actually had Toutes since Memorial Day weekend. We found her running along a deserted stretch of highway, then dashing across in front of us. She was filthy, very thin, and smelled strongly of wood smoke. She came right to me, so she had family at one point, but she was so far away from everything and was in such bad shape I didn't try to find her origins. Not sure how old she is, but she's still chewing and I don't think she's had a heat yet. I didn't ask the vet and he didn't mention it.
She's wants to rule the world, and does. She's attached to my hip, but is brave and bossy. She and Bijou are just now getting to be buds, and she and Lizzy, our white Chihuahua (also a rescue ... deserted by bug-out renters,) were buds from the first.
Bijou is not a rescue ... I got her for myself for Christmas three years ago, from a local breeder I know. She was the only straight haired baby in the litter, and was the runt as well. Just like me!
Your four legged family members are adorable! I don't know why we are calling these very hot days "dog's days". No dog no cat wants to be outside. Yours luckily having you caring for them.
ReplyDeleteThe creamy white blouse is beautiful. Cream or champaign white is more classy, I think.
Your maxi clutch is also beautiful. For me it would still be too small, because I often take my camera with me and, and, and... you know that.
I had to go look up why part of summer is referred to as the Dog Days ... "reckoned in antiquity from the heliacal rising of Sirius, the Dog Star"
DeleteThe heliacal rising "occurs when it first becomes visible above the eastern horizon for a brief moment just before sunrise, after a period of time when it had not been visible."
Good to know!
I probably won't carry the clutch often, but it's nice to have options.
And thanks so much for you sweet comments. So glad you stopped by. and I hope you'll come often!
I love clutches! But in all honesty, only use a clutch when I go out to dinner and don't want to lug around a ton of stuff. Other than that .. I do need a more substantial hand bag to .. lug around all the stuff that I probably don't need .. lol.
ReplyDeleteAlthough for summer, I am looking for a smaller shoulder bag.
Monica, www.pear-shaped-gal.com
Oh my gosh, that was fun!! You look lovely in your CREAM not white with black. Your pets, too cute for words! I like the term demi-Chihuahua, that is classic.
ReplyDeleteAs to the large clutch, good for you! I am not a good downsizer either, so its good to know the option is out there.
xo,
Alyssa
Oh, thanks ... I really do hope to amuse, entertain and inform. To whatever extent that's useful, I'm glad you liked it.
DeleteYup ... the pups are cuties. We like to elevate if we can, or at least put the best spin on, our dog's multicultural backgrounds.
Have a great week, lovely girl. I'm always so happy to see you stop by, and hope you feel at home here.
You're wrong; that blouse photographed just fine and it's stunning! I love it on you and that clutch is quite beautiful, too.
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking good care of your babies. You're right, the clothes can't love you back - and they don't care what you're wearing, just who you are ;-)
Alicia
Good ... thought the pleats looked a little soft. And I'm pleased with the clutch, but I will probably use it only occasionally. I need handles.
DeleteThanks for liking the "baby pictures" as well. They are the little lights of my life.
Hope you are having a good week ... one day I'm going to get away to come see y'all over there!
Congrats on your new fur-baby!1 Toutes is ADORABLE!! And so are your other sweeties--altho Janie looks suspciously like she is throttling Posh!!
ReplyDeleteLove all of you outfits!!!
Oh the pups and kittehs! Adorable and stylish. I love your blouse. It's a nice shade of cream. And the fan is fantastic ;) I like clutches too and sometimes carry a big one because they're more practical.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your sweet comments, Jean. The kids are adorable, and I like to show them off once in a while. In future, I'll keep an eye out for larger clutches, but will probably always need a handle!
DeleteHave a great week!
Found you!!! Took me a while. Everytime I think I am really being digital I have to admit I am not.
ReplyDeleteNever mind. Love the blouse (you can still wear it without sleeves, ENVY)and your clutch is the best. What a good find.
Greetje
Hello, Greetja! Glad you stopped by, and thanks for the very kind remarks! I don't think I've mastered making my site easy to find yet. Gotta work on it.
DeleteDon't know if I *can* go sleeveless, but I do. My arms are definitely not my best parts, but I just can't wear sleeves here as it is too humid. Often triple digits centigrade, and 90 percent humidity. I cover up naturally in winter, and that's a better style-season for me.
So glad you stopped by ... you're welcome anytime!
Oh you DO carry a lot in that clutch! Glad you found one in a size that's workable for every day. You look so chic in this cream and white combo, gorgeous!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for your sweet comments, Tina.
DeleteYup, everyday clutches require more space. I'll probably always carry a bag with a handle, but it's good to expand the options
I'm really enjoying your blog ... keep writing!
So happy you came by. You're always welcome.
I've got the same beef with clutches. They are for dates only. I throw in my ID, a credit card and some lipstick. Then dump it all back into my oversized bag when I get back home. Cream is such a nice color, it's so much gentler than white yet just as flattering. Your babies are just TOO sweet!
ReplyDeleteAwww, thanks Alison! Glad you liked the pups ... but none as sweet as your real girl daughter! Great post, mother-daughter.
DeleteHave a great week, kiddo. So happy you stopped by.
Oh, you adorable woman! You do look wonderful in cream ( I think a lot of us look better in cream than stark white), its just hard to admit to ourselves. I have never owned a clutch for the exact reason you mentioned, too much stuff, which I probably don't need, but I like and feel more together just knowing I have it with me. So glad to know that someone has made a clutch for women who like 'stuff'. by the way, how was it carry it around? I'm also one who loves free hands. Now give your darling dogs a Trina hug from me as well as your cats.
ReplyDeleteAs I was saying above, we live so far away from the Big City that I take a day's worth of stuff in my bag. Probably won't use the clutch often, but nice to know I can. It was OK for a full day's shopping in terms of comfort, and I'm not used to it so that's not bad. Got a nice compliment on it from one woman ... but it will probably remain an occasionally chosen option!
DeleteHugs given all around ... they appreciate them!
Have a great week, our Trina. Always happy when you stop by!
Yes, yes, cream is perfect for everyon and for each occasion! In art deco and other ancient style make you particularry sophisticated! Iam envy for your slylish hair! And appreciate your humor!
ReplyDeletePets are cute!
Thank you GeeGree! I've really enjoyed your blog as well ... keep posting at Visible Monday. It takes a while to catch on, but worth it.
DeleteThanks for you sweet comments! Come by anytime.
OOh, the pleating really is pretty and you're right, it really does look Art Deco!!!
ReplyDeletethe little doggies are the cutest thing ever (kitties too!)
Hoped you might enjoy the kittehs. I will need to do an apology and retraction post as I stupidly misidentified one of the cats. They're touchy.
ReplyDeleteGlad you like my top ... I'm white-top challenged, and really am happy to have figured out that cream works, pure white doesn't.
Glad you stopped by ... you're always welcome!
So there ARE cream blouses out there, huh? I can't seem to find one anywhere and was starting to give up hope, thinking maybe they were like unicorns or the pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. ;)
ReplyDeleteI LOVE your clutch! I've been clutch shopping too and think it's humorous to see what some websites are selling as a clutch. I mean, if I can't put a tube of lipstick in it, well then, it's a WALLET.
Oh, this outfit is beautiful! I love how you used one of my favourite quotes ever then showed Einstein some fashion wisdom!
ReplyDeleteSo nice to see a pet interlude too. I am very allergic to cats, but dogs not so much. It is good to see cute cat-ness on theinternetz, where they won't make me sneeze. Your dogs, I will dogsit for you any time I am in the US! Xx
Cream, black and nude are always very stylish and elegant.
ReplyDeleteI love cream as it is softer especially when I am not suntanned. In summer I wear white as well.
I was laughing about the contents of your bag - I always carry everything I might need one day. Needless to say that I never really need all that stuff ;-)
Annette
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"There are no unsightly bulges that might be caused by ... ummm ... actual contents. You know, the stuff that you need to carry around in them?" I hear you lady, I hear you!
ReplyDeleteI could not get by on a clutch - much as I love them. I am bag lady extraordinaire - too much stuff to carry.
Your pooches are adorable!
Fab cream shirt too - sometimes we do learn from our wardrobe mistakes (that's my excuse for repeatedly making them anyway!)